Ten Situations in Which the Silence of the Pastor is Golden

Preparing for the Second Sunday after Pentecost: One Day before Sunday (Year C)

Scripture (semicontinuous)

Psalter: Psalm 42 and 43

Old Testament: Proverbs 11:3-13

Gospel: Matthew 9:27-34

Scripture (complementary)

Psalter: Psalm 22:19-28

Old Testament: Isaiah 59:1-8

Gospel: Matthew 9:27-34

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Prayer

Hear our prayers, God of power, and through the ministry of your Son free us from the grip of the tomb, that we may desire you as the fullness of life and proclaim your saving deeds to all the world. Amen.

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Reflection

With their mouths the godless would destroy their neighbors, but by knowledge the righteous are delivered. When it goes well with the righteous, the city rejoices; and when the wicked perish, there is jubilation. By the blessing of the upright a city is exalted, but it is overthrown by the mouth of the wicked. Whoever belittles another lacks sense, but an intelligent person remains silent. A gossip goes about telling secrets, but one who is trustworthy in spirit keeps a confidence (Proverbs 11:9-13).

Ten Situations in Which the Silence of the Pastor is Golden.

Because at certain times, a pastor’s word will stifle necessary conversation:

1. When a healthy discussion breaks out in Bible study.

2. During a meeting when members of the committee are having a vigorous and lively debate on what is best for the church.

3. When someone in great pain is expressing it.

4. In certain situations when someone expresses a view with which the pastor vigorously disagrees.

5. When the pastor speaking will cause more harm than being silent.

6. When a tear speaks more clearly than a word.

7. When someone simply feels the need “to vent.”

8. In accepting unfair criticism, when it deflects away from someone else, who has also been treated unfairly.

9. When what the pastor is hearing is also painful from personal experience.

10. In any situation when the presence of the pastor is more significant than his or her profound words.

PRAYER: God of word and stillness. Help me to discern when to speak and when to listen. May my voice and my ears bring honor and glory to your name. Amen.

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